where has time gone? i'm not sure. it's been months since i have had a second to myself. i'm still trying to figure out if that is a bad thing or not. right now i am perfectly comfortable with how things are and where i am at... but that is what frightens me the most. i can recall a time of uncertainty when i would constantly be thinking about my next move, but now for the most part things are pretty stagnant. good, but stagnant. i think with trying so hard to ensure the happiness of someone else i have neglected myself and my needs.it's not that i am a very needy person, but sometimes you just need time to yourself to reflect on things, and i have been to preoccupied lately to do that. i think that might be why time has accelerated so much.. because i haven't taken moments out of my day to sit and think about my life.i'm going to make an effort to do this more often.